For all those who want student/student and teacher/student pairings.......
This is taken from a post Tammy made on Sheroes Central in reply to a spoiler that Daja is a lesbian, and the subsequent snarking about this being a stereotype..
Tammy:
I am trapped no matter how I went with the Circle girls: Sandry the femme, Tris the hostile, and Daja the smith. For that matter, God help me if I claimed Briar was gay--stereotyped because he has no long-term relationships with women he's bedded, and he's sensitive and works in a "feminine" area.
What I'm bending over backward to do, and what I've gotten dinged for here, is let the sexual affiliation grow out of the situation, and not belabor it by saying things like "`OMG, Lalasa, you love other women!' gasped Kel. `Well, that makes perfect sense, since your brother abused you and you hate men! I just want you to know I support you in your quest for tenderness!'"
Is that what you want? I'm trying to treat gays and lesbians and those who are bisexual as part of everyday life. To do that, I can't spell it straight out when I'm writing a book about another plot entirely. For one thing, by dealing with it even in a sentence or two, when the book is about another event stream altogether, I might as well post a Sensitivity Sign with a big neon arrow pointing to the moment, so everyone knows I'm making A Correctness Statement. For another, the book isn't about that. There are so many writers, far better at this than I am (Brent Hartinger, Nancy Garden, Francesca Lia Block)--they are writing books in which the sexual orientation of the characters is the issue. I am more than happy to let them do it, and for me to go on telling my own stories.
Lark and Rosethorn's sexual orientation wasn't a vital part of their part of the Circle books, which was managing four very powerful, very damaged, very intelligent pre-pubescents. By Circle Opens we only see them separately. In CIRCLE REFORGED we don't see them at all. I had to cut Thom and Roger because LIONESS RAMPANT was only 200 pages long, which meant I had to cut wads and wads of material and use only the main plot: Alanna undergoes trials and comes home to build a stronger realm. I didn't make a big thing about Lalasa and Tianne because in FIRST TEST and PAGE I was still being held to 200 pages a book, and the only person's story I had room for was Kel's. And Kel, though she shelters Lalasa, helps her, protects her, and gives her a start, deals more in the lives of her male friends than that of her maid. She's with the guys 16 hours a day, Lalasa 8. And servants didn't confide in their masters easily in that world.
Sorry about the long post, but this series of objections really cut me to the quick. I cannot possible address all of the Big Issues in my books; I'm resigned to that, and just as determined to address the issues that are important to me (female empowerment in the face of the odds, shaping your own life). If you think I step wrongly here, I beg you, start writing. That's how I dealt with the powerless women and girls in the fiction of my teenaged years. If I am stereotypical, correct it in your own work.
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Also, apparently Lark and Rosethorn aren't exclusive, as Rosethorn and Crane occasionally have a thing going.